When it comes to success in online dating, it all comes down to three things: your profile, your photos, and your strategy. With online dating apps split between discovery apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge and apps like Match, POF, Zoosk, and eHarmony knowing how to write the best dating profile for the dating app you are can be confusing.

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In today’s blog, we are going to break down the basics of how to write a profile that attracts the people you want to meet.

How to Write a Profile for Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge

Discovery, or Swipe, apps changed the way people date when Tinder first came onto the market in 2012. Where you used to have to write a long profile, now you were limited to no more than 500 characters.

Also, instead of searching through profiles, you swiped through photos, only stopping to read the ones that grabbed your attention. The result is a type of dating that feels more like a video game.

This makes spending time on these apps easier, but it can make finding a connection on apps like Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge that much harder.

What Are People Doing Wrong?

With only 500 characters on Tinder, 350 on Bumble, and only 150 per answer on Hinge, people feel like their only chance is to stand out with a profile so clever that the reader would want to not only swipe right but share it on their Instagram account.

This is the wrong way to go.

When you try to be clever or funny, it often just sounds forced and disingenuous. You don’t need to entertain the masses to get your profile swiped on. You just need to connect with people. You are never going to get a good connection with a sales pitch, and that’s what half the people on these apps are doing.

Sadly, the other half are just listing adjectives like features on a used car… because there’s nothing people want to read more than a list.

How do I write my Tinder or Bumble profile?

We will have a more in-depth post coming out on this soon, but the basics are pretty easy.

• Forget the sales pitch
  • You can’t convince people to like you if there’s no connection. Just be yourself. It is the only way you will connect with the right people.
• Leave the list behind
  • Instead of filling space with a ton of useless adjectives, pick three things that matter to you. Write a full sentence for each one of them, giving context and color. That way you aren’t just saying you love concerts, you are creating a conversation starter by telling them about the best show you’ve ever been to or your dream concert. This context is what will grab people. If they liked your photos enough that they wanted to read your profile, this is the kind of stuff that will make them want to get to know you. Lists just don’t do that for you.
• Tell a story
  • If the previous suggestion doesn’t grab you, pick one thing, a story from your life that tells who you are. That’s the only thing you have to write about. When people read that, they’ll get a sense of who you are, and that will help them determine if they would actually want to spend time with you.
• Use the space they give you
  • I’m constantly amazed at how many people use less than 100 characters of their allotted space on their profiles. The number of characters between the number 3 and the start of this sentence is already 143. When you leave a profile blank, or you write the least amount that you think you can get away with, you show people that you don’t really care about how you present yourself and you are mainly focused on photos. Even if that was true, you’ll still have a much better rate of success if you put in that little bit of extra effort.
• Don’t be afraid to ask for help
  • Whether you need an objective eye on your photos or you need help writing your Tinder/ Bumble profile, we’ve got you covered. We’ve created a suite of services specifically to help you improve your success with Tinder and Bumble. Check them out HERE.

How Do I Write My Hinge Profile?

Hinge is actually our favorite discovery dating app. While not as large as Tinder or Bumble, It has a design that is far more conducive to starting conversations and connecting than any of its discovery competitors. Here are two big tips that everyone needs to make sure they follow when they write their Hinge profile.

• Choose the right questions
  • When people call me for help with their Hinge profile, one of the first problems I notice is that they usually choose questions because they think other people want to read the answers, not because they had any interest in answering them. If you don’t pick questions that interest you, your answers are going to suck! It only takes five minutes to read through all of the questions they give you to choose from. If you don’t have an answer in your head for that question, pick a different one. If you have to sit and ponder what your answer should be to a question, you shouldn’t be trying to answer that profile question.
• Give full answers
  • There is no dating app where people are more guilty of one-word answers than on Hinge. You have 150 characters. It’s not a lot. It’s two letters more than I wrote in the last two sentences. When you answer a question, make sure you take the time to give your answer context. Instead of just saying you can’t live without Italian food, tell people that one special dish that always makes a bad day better for you.
• Call in the experts
  • If you get stuck on your Hinge profile, we’ve created a special service just for you. With this service, you can hop on the phone with one of our dating profile writers and have your new profile in as little as 20 minutes! Check it out HERE.

How to Write a Profile for Match, Pof, Zoosk, Harmony, or Okcupid

Traditional dating apps like Match, POF, Zoosk, eHarmony, and OKC are where most of the real relationship-seekers are when it comes to online dating. Most of these dating apps require a paid membership, and they all require a much longer profile than you’ll see on Discovery apps.

Another big thing to realize about these dating apps is that they draw a more mature crowd than discovery apps. I would not generally recommend any of these apps (other than OKC) to anyone under 32. With all of that in mind, here are some tips to help you write your dating profile:

• Show don’t tell
  • Most people are a recipe: I’m funny, outgoing, loyal, kind, athletic. People don’t want to eat the recipe, they want to eat the cake. Never list things about you. Take the list of things that you want to say, cut it in half, and then make sure that each of those things has a comment added to it that brings it to life and gives it context. That’s what will take you from flour, eggs, sugar, and cocoa to a moist, delicious chocolate cake.
• Watch your “I”s
  • You can make the world’s most interesting person sound like the world’s most boring person if every sentence about yourself starts with the word “I.” Make sure to use transitional phrasing in your sentences and it will do a much better job of creating a connection with prospective matches.
• Remember your audience
  • Most people think they need to write a profile that attracts the most people. That’s just wrong. Your profile should actually repel around 99% of the people who see it. The only people who matter are the ones with whom you share actual compatibility. Don’t worry about attracting everyone else.
• Don’t worry about funny, worry about you
  • People always ask me to make their profile funnier or more clever, but that’s not always the best plan. Funny and clever is great if you have a funny story to share or something that is naturally clever. Trying to force it into the profile just makes you sound like a salesman. If you really want to add humor, the best way is through an anecdote. Other than that, just focus on being yourself.
• Don’t ask for things that are normal parts of healthy relationships
  • You’ll often see people say they want to meet someone honest and loyal, or someone who doesn’t play games and is looking for a monogamous relationship. While all of these things sound reasonable, they are also things that you shouldn’t have to ask for. When you do ask, it makes it sound like you are still dealing with issues from past relationships where you were lied to or cheated on.
• Don’t write too little, or too much
  • The worst thing you can do in a traditional profile is to write the same kind of profile that you would for a discovery dating app. You have space. Use it! A good profile is going to be at least 150 words long. However, if it goes over 300 words, fewer people are going to be willing to read it.
• Give me a call
  • If you’ve read all these tips and still feel confused, or like you would rather have a professional take care of it for you, give e a call at 888-447-7634. We can talk about your concerns and come up with a plan to make sure you have a great dating profile. You can also check out all of our dating profile writing services HERE.

Bonus Tip For OKCupid and eHarmony Profiles

Unlike the other dating profiles, eHarmony and OKCupid break their profiles up into a series of questions.

It is really important that you answer EVERY question. This is not the time or place to get lazy. Take the time to answer them all, and make sure that you give full answers. One word answers are just going to make it look like you don’t really care about meeting someone.

Get Out There and Put Your Best Foot Forward with a Dating Profile That Stands Out From The Crowd

That’s it for today. These are some of the core ideas behind how to write a great dating profile. If you’ve made it this far, but you are stuck, don’t worry. I’ve been helping singles with their dating profiles for the last sixteen years. I’m here for you.

Just give me a call at 888-447-7634, or send me a message HERE.

Finding someone to date in the real world can definitely be challenging. Have you decided to give the world of online dating a try? There are many benefits to online dating. It can be less intimidating and you can get to know people before you decide to meet in person. In this article, we have listed plenty of dating profile headlines and profile examples.

First, you will need to find the right type of dating website. There are many different types of dating websites out there. From religious dating websites to dating websites for more casual dating, you can find the best fit for you.

Next, you will need to create your dating profile. Find a decent headshot of yourself. You should be smiling or at least look happy. The photo should also be recent. Nobody likes to feel like they were tricked because their date used a 10 year-old photo in their dating profile.

Even in the online dating world, first impressions are everything. So you will want to get people hooked. The best way to do this is through your words. The only way that you can make a great first impression is by crafting a well-written headline and profile. Sure, there are also private messages, but your profile itself will also say a lot about you that can either reel a person in or it could also go the wrong way and drive them off.

When it comes to creating your online dating profile, there are do’s and don’ts that you might want to consider following. Avoid sounding too desperate, as if you will settle for anyone. People will not be likely to find that attractive. Also avoid mentioning your previous heartbreaks or relationships. If you are afraid to get back into the dating game or having trust issues, then people will not think you are ready to date yet.

Here are some ways to make your online dating profile stand up. Try to be memorable and unique. Be yourself but avoid being negative on your profile. Remember that the goal is to attract people to you. Be honest, but remember to make your profile desirable.

Think about your personality. Are you a hopeless romantic? Are you a funny person? Think about your strongest personality traits and use that information to help you write your dating profile.

Below are examples of dating headlines and profiles that you can use. At the same time, remember to try your best to also use your own words and to put in your own details in there as well. That is what will make you stand out from everyone else in the online dating world. Wether you are using POF, Match, Tinder etc., here are plenty of headlines to choose from.

Dating Profile Headlines:

Romantic Headlines

-Are you the one?

-Can you make my dreams come true?

-Searching for my soulmate.

-Come and sweep me off my feet.

-Waiting for Prince Charming.

-In need of a true love’s kiss.

-Are we meant to be?

-Looking for love.

-On the quest for the next adventure.

-Can you make me laugh?

-Are you the girl that I’ve been searching for?

-Let’s hang out.

-Let’s get to know each other.

-Trying to find Mr./Mrs. Right.

-Ready to settle down.

-Looking for the leading lady in the movie of my life.

-On a quest for true romance.

-Take my breath away.

-Let’s fall madly in love.

-Looking for a serious relationship.

-The Romeo to your Juliet.

Funny Headlines

-Run away now, before it’s too late!

-All that and a bag of chips.

-The whole enchilada.

-Looking for the peanut butter to my jelly.

-My mom thinks I’m a great catch.

-My dog can vouch for how awesome I am.

-I am your parents’ worst nightmare.

-Someone your parents won’t hate.

-Let’s tell everyone we met on a plane to Greece.

Nerdy Headlines

-Prefers brains over brawn.

-Lets go down the rabbit hole together.

-I’m sweeter than 3.14 .

-I like big brains and I cannot lie.

Flirty Headlines

-Can you keep up with me?

-Looking for a bad boy.

-Bad boy who needs to be punished.

-Can you tame this lion?

-Let’s have a good time.

-A princess who needs to be spoiled.

-Can you satisfy me?

-Looking for a fun time.

-No strings attached.

-Let’s see where the night takes us.

-Let’s have a drink.

-The guy your parents warned you about.

-Can you afford me?

Bad Examples of Dating Profile Headlines:

There can be such a thing as a bad dating profile headline. These are the type that are too vague and will have people just scrolling past your profile. Here are some examples of bad dating profile headlines.

-Hey.

-What’s up?

-How does this work?

-Just looking.

-Can’t believe I’m doing this.

-Giving this another try.

-Are there any good guys on here?

-Can’t take another heartbreak.

-Will I ever find love again?

-Finding it hard to trust anyone after my last heartbreak.

-Trying to get over my last relationship.

-Have never done this before.

-Never thought I’d be desperate enough to try a dating website.

Online Dating Profile Examples:

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Now that you have picked your headline, you may wonder on how to write a catching dating profile. Here are numerous samples you can choose from.

The working professional

I am a working professional who is looking for someone mature like me. You must have a job and your own place. While I take work very seriously and put in 110% at the office, I work hard and play hard. In terms of style, I am not much of a t-shirt and jeans kind of girl. I always dress to impress, but on weekends I let my hair down a little more.

I cannot be with someone who does not have a job or any career aspirations. I am attracted to people who have their eye on the prize, people who know what they want and do what it takes to make things happen.

I am looking for someone who shares my goals, values, and aspirations in life. We do not need to have everything in common, but it is important to me that you are passionate about something. I want to be in a relationship with someone who thinks about the future and knows where they want to be 5, 10, and even 20 years from now. I am interested in someone who can bring out the best in me and who will always strive to be better. If you think that you can challenge me to be the best version of myself and are looking for someone who can do this for you, then let’s talk

Silly

My dog thinks I’m pretty awesome and I tend to agree. I can make people smile and love to make my friends and family laugh. I am looking for someone that I can laugh and enjoy life with. I don’t take myself too seriously and I like to dance like nobody else is there.

You might be wondering what is so special about me. Do I own more than one pair of dress pants? No. Do I still watch cartoons? Sometimes. And can I finish a whole pizza pie in one sitting if I’m hungry enough? Definitely. But here’ the important stuff. If you are the right person for me, I will always try to make you giggle and feel good about yourself.

But why now? Why am I on a dating website? For one, I am tired of bringing strangers of the streets as my plus ones to social events. And sure, I feel like I might be missing out on something as each of my friends gets married and has kids. So if you think you could settle with someone as goofy as someone like myself, give me a buzz and we can see where this goes.

The easygoing one

I am an easygoing person looking for someone who I can spend time with. Someone with a laid-back attitude and great sense of humor is the perfect fit for someone like me. I am the type of person who is very flexible and likes to go with the flow. I am always open to new experiences.

Don’t mistake my easygoing attitude for someone who doesn’t know what they like. I am looking for someone who is ready to commit to a relationship and who I can be in perfect harmony with. I want someone who likes me and accepts me for who I am and I will return the favor.

Feel free to drop me a line and let’s get this conversation started. Let’s see if we click and then take it from there.

The hopeless romantic

While I might not look like it at first glance, I will be the first person to admit that I am a sappy romantic at heart. From cheesy romantic comedy films to sleazy beach reads, I love a good love story.

My friends would describe me as a person who is loyal, generous, and nurturing to others. Anyone who knows me knows that I love watching the Bachelor. It is absolutely my favorite show.

Babies and puppies make my heart melt, but I can also be tough as nails when the situation calls for it. I might be a girly girl, but I’m also not afraid to get my hands a little dirty.

For me, the perfect relationship would be a passionate, whirlwind romance that is full of intimacy and trust. I would love to build an amazing life with the right person.

The humanitarian

As an individual who is in love with the world, I am someone who always tries to see the best in people. I am definitely an idealist who is always trying to help make the world a better place. Ideally, you think the same way as I do.

I love traveling the world and helping those who are in need. My favorite time was when my school traveled to Guatemala to help build a school in a small village. In my spare time I work in a soup kitchen and volunteer at an animal shelter. The cats are my favorite and if I could, I would take them all home with me.

My perfect date involves hiking and bringing along a picnic. Let’s team up together, get to know each other, and then work on saving the world little by little.

The adventurer

Bonjour! I am a wild card, a lover of life, and a citizen of the world who is looking for someone like me. I am looking for a person who will want to go on endless adventures and spontaneous road trips with me. For me, there is nothing quite like packing my bags, and stepping onto a plane, knowing that it will take me somewhere new.

I love taking chances. My ideal partner is an explorer like me and is open to trying new things. From trying a new cuisine to hopping on a plane, if you want to see what the world has to offer, then I’m your girl/guy.

The thrill seeker

When it comes to trying exciting new things, I’m your guy. I am an adrenaline junkie who loves to ride the craziest roller-coasters and raft down the most intense rapids. How does this translate on a personal level? In any relationship that I am in, I am passionate and I go all in. When I commit to someone, I am in it for the ride. No adventure is too small for this thrill seeker.

On first impressions, I might come off as a little intense, but at the end of the day I am really just a down to earth guy who loves to experience new things. I hate doing the same thing every day and I am always trying to learn something new.

The party animal

Life it too short to not be out having fun. You will almost never find me home sitting on my couch and watching TV on a Friday night. I like to go out and go dancing and I also love to eat at the best restaurants in town. My friends like to say that I am always the life of the party and with me, there is never a dull moment.

For me, the perfect partner can enjoy having a drink with me at the end of the night and when we feel like going out for the night, we can go dancing. I have never been one to shy away from the crowd and I love to sing karaoke, especially when it’s a fun duet. My favorite karaoke song to sing is Don’t Stop Believing by Journey. I’ve known all the words to that song since I was seven years old.

I can show you a good time and while I like to have fun, I am definitely ready to settle down and find the right person. And while you are more than welcome to try and tame me, I hope you will be attracted to my outgoing and lively personality.

The shy guy

On a Saturday night, you can usually find me curled up on the couch watching my favorite TV show. Instead of going to a bar or concert, my idea of fun is hanging out at home by myself or with my closest friends. My ideal date involves me cooking dinner, playing some Scrabble, and watching a classic movie.

While I am a bit of a homebody, I like going out too. Quiet walks in the park are my jam and I like to hang out in my favorite bookstore. The library and my neighborhood coffee shop are some of my other favorite places to hang out.

When I first meet someone, I can be a little bit shy, but I come out of my shell right away when it is the right person. If I am quiet for the first time, it is because I am being observant and taking everything in. My friends would say that my best attributes are that I am a loyal and thoughtful person.

The nerd

I am a self-proclaimed nerd and I am proud of it. You will usually find me hanging out at the campus library. I am attracted to brains, puns, witty banter, and glasses. The perfect partner for me isn’t afraid to let their geek flag fly. Ideally you love to think outside of the box and don’t adhere to just one label. Let’s be weird together.

The religious one

For anyone to be a perfect match for me, they must be a spiritual person. My faith has guided me through much of my life and it helps me make some of the most important decisions. Faith is the biggest part of who I am and it is the bedrock on which I hope to build any relationship.

I am a very active member of my church and consider many of the people in that community to be like family to me. Singing in the choir is my favorite part of church and I have been known to belt out the songs on the radio whenever I’m in the car.

Lists

Some people do not like to write paragraphs in their dating profiles. Instead, they prefer lists. Writing a list of things about you or things that you like or don’t like is a great and easy way for other people to get a sense of who you are as an individual. Here are some examples of lists for a dating profile.

Here are 10 things you need to know about me:

1. I love country music.
2. My favorite TV show is Cake boss.
3. I play the guitar.
4. I have 2 cats.
5. I have 2 left feet according to every dance partner that I have ever had.
6. I am addicted to chocolate, but my favorite is milk chocolate.
7. Halloween is my favorite holiday.
8. Apple pie is my favorite dessert.
9. I like to go rock climbing.
10. My favorite thing to cook is lasagna.

5 Things that I absolutely can’t live without:

1. Google
2. My bike
3. Diet Pepsi
4. Pizza
5. The beach

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My top 5 pet peeves:

1. Littering.
2. Being rude to waiters.
3. Being on the phone during dinner.
4. Being a bad tipper.
5. Folding pages in books.

5 things that I find attractive in a person:

1. An ability to laugh at yourself and not take things too seriously.
2. Enjoy great food and good wine. Will try almost anything once.
3. Confidence.
4. Taking charge and not waiting for things to happen.
5. Knowing what’s going on in the world besides celebrity gossip.

Conclusion

These are just some examples of things that you can include in your online dating profile. Think about the examples that speak the loudest to you and use those examples to inform the writing style you use in your headline and profile.

When writing your profile, you should let people know about your personality and what you like and look for in a partner. You should also reveal if you are looking for a casual or more serious relationship. What do you like to do for fun? What are some things that would turn you off to a potential partner? These are all great things to include in your profile. At the same time, if you would prefer to keep your profile short and simple, then that is okay too.

Don’t underestimate the importance of pictures. Your profile picture should at least show your face and if you can add more pictures, try to show your whole body and some pictures of you smiling. Avoid putting up pictures with bad lighting, as well as photos where you might look creepy or intimidating. When it comes to taking good pictures, know what your good angles are.

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Remember to be yourself and to not worry about finding some matches too much. When it comes to dating, whether it is online or in the real world, you have to do your best to be patient. Just try to present your best self to the rest of the world and remember no matter what happens, there are plenty of fish in the sea for you to meet.